When I was 19, leaving a vanilla boyfriend behind, I took a 3 month trip through Europe by myself. I locked eyes with the Mona Lisa at the Louvre, I trudged through snow at Kitzbühel, Austria. And then, I met a Domme on a patio, while lunching at Hofbräuhaus in Munich. He was tall, handsome and spoke only German and Italian, and I only French and English. He took me to his private dungeon and held me captive for 12 hours. (willingly)

Hung upside down, strapped down to a bench, bound by endless rope, over his knee while gagged, on and on it went, and I had little say over what he would do next. But to be fair, he didn’t do anything I didn’t like. And he knew that. Bewildered but happy, I was sent off in a midnight cab, forever changed — galvanized in ways I could never have imagined.

I believe a true Domme is fluent in sensation, because she began as an exquisite submissive. The discoveries I made in the dungeons of Paris, Montreal, New York, London, Toronto and Copenhagen, combined with decades of disciplined practice, have shaped the woman I am today. In my youth, I may have been raised upon crosses and lowered to my knees in service. Now, I stand — seasoned, sovereign, here to serve your explorations, and entirely in command of you.

My Story

Toronto’s Premier Sensual Domme

If you’ve been drawn to this site, it’s likely that you are a discerning gentleman looking for an haut de gamme, sexy, unparalleled experience, and perhaps, even a little sophistication, found in a mature, intelligent woman.

Time with me is genuine, and all my endings are unbearably happy.

I specialize in curating deeply personalized experiences that build throughout the session. I have a private well appointed dungeon of my own, downtown.

My interests have primarily been in the artistic and somatic realms.

I have studied in Canada, the US, Costa Rica and many parts of India, and am certified in Hatha and Vinyasa yoga, experienced in different forms of Buddhist meditation, am certified IFBB pro in Bodybuilding, have studied Vipassana and Pranayama breath work, level 1 (Shoden) Reiki, and have certifications in Tantric, sports and Lomi Lomi massage. I am also a former fetish model, dancer, burlesque entertainer and published erotica writer. I bring a little bit of everything to our time together.

I’m an avid traveller, speak French and English fluently, am a natural born redhead, with green/hazel eyes and fair freckled skin. I am firm, strong and tall 5”10 (177.8cm) in bare feet, and wear a size 9 (40) shoe. I measure 38DD on top, 30 waist and 40 hips, and I am about a size 12. I have no implants , enhancements or tattoos.

My wardrobe is primarily silk and satin business wear with vintage style lingerie underneath, paired with a classic designer pump. If you’d prefer, you can request latex, stockings and high boots. Or, crinolines and stockings for role play and floor level views/upskirt fetishes.

For Red Tantra or Bondassage requests, where oil is involved, you can expect to find a simple sexy lace bodysuit underneath my clothes.

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